My Awakening

With a 14 year old son and 12 year old daughter, I am smack dab in the middle of trying to figure out how to raise two kids in a world of technology.   I was amazed the other day when I logged into my router and noticed there were 47 wireless devices connected.  At first I thought a few of my neighbors and their friends had connected into our router, but after looking at each device, I realized just how electronically connected my family was.  From TV’s and phones, to tablets, watches and a few desktop computers, it hit me hard. If there was ever an awaking, this was mine.   I shall call this

          “My Awakening”.

Now I am no doctor nor a parental physiologist, but I do know from experience that these electronic devices have shaped me and my kids into something I am concerned with. I want my kids to be educated with electronic devices but I do not want them to become desensitized from reality. I want my kids to be a part of this electronic revolution, I just don’t want to see them die from it. Having a wife who works at Sony and specifically on the Sony PlayStation, I know it is not going away nor is it going to get any easier. But I do know I can do something about it and thus, I am.

My Awakening is to help parents find the rights tools to assist them in bringing up their teenage kids in a world of technology.   Yes I found some great apps that limit the amount of time on an electronic device, however some would call this bad parenting and in some ways I agree.  There are many books to read about technology parenting and I will continue to post these on my blog.   Thanks to my good friend Rob, I am currently reading Queen Bees and Wannabes for my daughter, and Masterminds & Wingmen for my son.  Both books written by Rosalind Wiseman and so far have really struck home.

Over the next several months I will be posting what I have learned from counselors and friends and the research I have done on my own.  My goal here is to really share the knowledge I am about to find.  However I think my ultimate goal is to eventually start a new business that does just what I am looking for:   Providing the right tools to assist parents in bringing up their teenage kids in a world of technology.

So for now, I am going to kick off my awakening by re-sharing these two pages of house rules (shown below) on my refrigerator door and wait for my kid’s response and feedback, which is going to be awesome I assure you.   In the meantime, please start by reading this page called Cognitive Development in Adolescence from the University of Rochester Medical Center.   Cognitive development means the growth of a child’s ability to think and reason.   You first have to understand your child’s ability to “think and reason” before you can help a child.

Stay tuned.